Seeds of Confidence -
The Third International SEAL Conference in
Argentina February 10 - 12, 2000 - Buenos
Aires Plenaries and workshops
Ricardo Cavallini
"... for there is nothing
good or bad,
but thinking makes it so."
Hamlet
(II, ii, ll.249-50)
" The mind is its own
place, and in itself
Can make a heaven of hell, a hell
of heaven."
Paradise Lost
(Book I, ll.254-5)
We do not react to external events
but rather to an interpretation of them. And how do we weave this
interpretative tapestry? Just with visual, auditory and kinesthetic
images held together by our beliefs.
NLP and Neuro-Associative Conditioning
provide us with useful tools to raise our awareness of how we
structure our subjective experience. This awareness or "mindfulness"
is the first big step towards developing our intra-interpersonal
skills. Once we realize how we create the meanings we attach to
events we'll be able to choose the most resourceful and proactive
ones and help others do the same.
Through simple, practical and
creative exercises we'll be able to develop better rapport with
ourselves and those around us.